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« on: Sunday, October 03, 2010, 03:14:05 AM »
Just a heads up, this post will have some Dann-esque attached.
Recently, I was browsing the forum and had a revelation. I finally understood the point behind Dann's threads such as the Intelligence one. Don't ask me what made me see his point because I really don't remember. I just remember an "ahhhh" moment. Today, I spent some time having a good chat with Dann and this subject came up. I'll try and summarize my point so most people read it:
While we, as a community, have the ability to have various discussions, I would like to see more. I appreciate and am also amazed at the amount of activity since I opened this site. While some of his posts are over my head, I do find it a shame and waste that Dann's efforts are largely ignored. I know the larger demographic of this site is late-teen gamers and because of that, philosophical and deep meaningful artistic things may not appeal. That's fine. But, it doesn't mean that we have to be so narrow in discussions. I've enjoyed most of the discussions in the debating board, I would like to see more of that. Killaman does a great job giving thorough reviews of games and I think we all post news, mostly technology, but news nonetheless. I like Headshot!, I do. I just wish there was more. I'm not going to say you people need to change yourselves to be more engaging and entertaining for the rest of us or say that you need to go out and learn a subject. I'm not going to because I know you won't. You are who are who you are and who am I to dictate how you change your life. So then, what's the answer? After talking with Dann and doing some thinking, I think it comes down to 2 things:
1. We need more diverse activity. I can't really push this and I don't know how to go about it. Basically, more posts/threads concerning different subjects.
2. While you all are quite enjoyable, we need more people. Don't spam the URL on DRAAT or your MSN client, just share this site with the people that you respect and enjoy talking to. This is meant to be a friendly place for welcoming anyone to talk about anything and I will do what I can to maintain that.
Speaking of my duty to maintain this place; I'm going to say that, without pointing fingers or mentioning threads or accusing, I'm asking that everybody should do what they can to respect each other and to be a little more careful of what they say and who they say it to. This is nothing Dann mentioned to me, it's just my own observation. Part of being open and welcoming new ideas and people is that you give and get respect and don't piss people off. You may have views, opinions and beliefs but that doesn't mean you have to push them on people or make others feel bad for thinking something other than your stance. You wouldn't want to be on the receiving end.
I could also put some blame on myself for things like using a cheesy subdomain for the site instead of forking money over for a real URL (but that will change sometime soon) and also using a default theme for a forum. They're minor things but they do nag at me.
That's that. As Crunk would say, discuss.