Didn't want to create a new topic, nor post in the shoutbox about a few findings.
ArmyOps logs can be found here: Local Disk (C) / Users / (Your User Name) / AppData / Roaming / 25 Assist / ArmyOps / System / ArmyOps (Log file) look at the type) If its not there, start armyops from system and it should appear new log file.
Open it with notepad.

You can't join your own server using Assist server manager tool.
If your friends can't join your server, make sure all ports are open.
To create a server, open all ports, create a new server (in managers tool), place your own details for the server, start a server, track it on battletracker.
Ask all the help on the forum, shoutbox help will be ignored.