I never said hacking is "right". I never said it is some kind solution. I never said it should be allowed. I just explained the background and I simply oppose to your idea of claiming that I'm some kind of a monster that eats AAO babies.
It's funny how you try to protect your "pro" friend. One day assist gets a much better AC than nowadays, and suddenly many of such respected "pros" will vanish. But it's nice to see that at least you can express yourself in an elegant way. But I'm not fooled by this. Not of all the hackers are a script kiddies.
So at #1, I don't see any reason for you to disagree on your ban in that case.
For #2. He's not my "pro" friend. I just analyze everything I see, and all I see is that he just plays better compared to other players. 90% of the players only got plan A and plan B, they do the same every time. When you played a few times with some players, you will see the same pattern over and over again and they become very predictable and easy to stop.
For example, if people play against me on hospital ambush, I usually take 18Z and rush fireescape to shoot 2nd floor rushers or I rush helipad. Very rarely I go underpass or hospital inside. When I'm escort I always go to the helipad boxes to shoot some people. Very rarely something else. Now almost every other player has a same pattern. When you know them you can counter them easily and get some high scores. No single hack, cheat, exploit or whatever needed to get a good score while just rushing.
I really put some effort in this because my 6th sense makes me worry about all of us since a few weeks.
Something drastically new must be done, fast, otherwise... 
PS : I agree, the progressive way appears to be the most appropriate one, under the condition
that we start fresh new with 10-20 listed OAS servers only and gradually list additional private servers
on a defined pace so the baby can grow healthy again 
The main problem I see in this approach is for the current server owners. I would like to know their opinion as well. Furthermore do we need a hierarchy of admins on the server? (some with pb_power, some with admin rights?)